A note on discretion

I would rather explain how I handle discretion than simply promise it. What follows is not a legal document: it is simply the way I work and the way I treat what you entrust to me. For me, discretion is as much a part of the experience as anything else.

We can stay in touch through whichever channel you find most comfortable: phone, WhatsApp, Telegram or email. I do not impose one, nor do I expect you to adapt to my habits. I save your contact under a pseudonym in a private contact list that I share with no one. If a conversation goes no further, or a long time passes without us being in touch, I delete what we have exchanged, including messages, photographs and audio.

To speak with me, a name is all I need. It can be your real one, or simply the one you would prefer me to use. I will not ask you for identification, personal details or information that is not genuinely necessary.

One important detail. Some digital payment methods reveal real personal data, both yours and mine, and that cannot always be avoided. Whatever I see in those moments stays with me, just like everything else I come to know about you. It is not a favour I am doing you: it is the respect I owe both you and my work.

Before and during our time together, I adapt to the level of discretion you prefer. Some women are completely at ease with the situation, while others would rather not draw attention to themselves. There is no right or wrong way: I take my cue from whatever makes you feel comfortable.

When an experience requires a little more organisation, a ticket, a hotel, a booking or a significant journey, I try, wherever possible, to take care of it myself and to do so discreetly, so that you do not have to disclose more than necessary. If I need some of your details for practical reasons, I treat them in exactly the same way: they are used for that specific purpose and go no further.

Likewise, I will only share your testimonial with your consent, and always in a way that does not make you recognisable.

Sometimes a conversation will also touch on previous experiences. Some women want to know how others have felt, what reassured them or how they experienced their first meeting. It is an understandable curiosity, and sometimes hearing about it helps. I can talk about feelings and situations, but I will always leave out anything that could make the person recognisable.

In return, I do not ask you to make any solemn promises. Discretion usually works both ways.