Frequently asked questions

The only requirement is being of legal age. What you choose to tell me about yourself, or not, is up to you. If you decide to send me photos, I recommend using the self-destruct option. How I handle what you entrust to me is set out in Privacy and discretion.

Whatever comes to mind, even a single question: the perfect message does not exist, and you do not need to have everything clear already or be able to explain in a few lines why you are here. We will work out the rest by talking. A message is just a message: it is not a booking, it does not reserve anything and it creates no commitment.

Your message comes straight to me and I am the one who replies: it does not go through an agency, an assistant or any intermediary. From there we talk calmly, you tell me what you are looking for and what you expect, and we both work out whether it makes sense to meet. The rest is organisation: we choose the date and the place, and from that moment all that remains is to meet. The full process is in How the first time works.

I usually reply the same day, sometimes within an hour. If I take longer, it is because I prefer to answer you when I can do so without rushing. My phone does not ring at night, so I will read your message in the morning.

Telegram offers the most protection, because there you can write to me without your number reaching me, and the same applies to email and to the form on this website. WhatsApp remains my preferred channel for talking, but there we can both see each other's number. As a rule, I do not answer calls from hidden numbers.

Yes, whenever you like and before any commitment. These are not compulsory steps or boxes to tick: we can do both, just one or neither. You can suggest them, just as I can.

Yes, when distance and travel make it easy, we can have a coffee for fifteen or twenty minutes. It is a meeting in its own right, with its own fee, agreed beforehand and kept separate from anything that may follow. It can perfectly well end with a goodbye. I talk about it in How the first time works.

The date becomes yours the moment we book it, so the earlier you get in touch, the more choice you have. That said, I have no rule about notice: if you know what you want, you can write to me at any time, and even at the last minute it costs nothing to try. If I am free, that is fine; if I already have a commitment, I will suggest the first available date.

As for duration, if you are not sure how much time to set aside, my advice is to start with a short format, which you can always extend in person. No duration makes one meeting more real than another.

As a rule, I travel and come wherever you prefer: a hotel, a place chosen for the occasion, your home or anywhere else, public or private. My home is an exception, and we talk about it case by case.

Yes, I travel throughout the archipelago, across Europe and beyond. I have no geographical limit: distance changes the minimum format and the travel conditions, not my willingness to travel. Minimum durations, travel and expenses are explained in Booking and payment.

Yes. If you want to discover Gran Canaria, I can accompany you and show you the island. The same conditions apply as for any other meeting of ours.

Yes, as long as you are independent and do not need any kind of medical assistance. If there are practical arrangements to make, tell me beforehand and we will organise things.

Yes, and it is something we can talk about beforehand, taking all the time we need. What I can offer you is a setting where you set the pace: nothing is compulsory, we only go as far as you feel ready to, and we stop the moment you want to, without you having to explain anything. For some women, it is a way of regaining trust in their own body and in intimacy, within a situation that holds no surprises. It is still a meeting, however, and not therapy: if what you need is therapeutic support, I am not the right person.

Yes. For me, two friends are the same as a couple, so the same conditions apply, including the rate.

Yes, involving another professional is not a problem. My fee stays the same, and you agree his fee with him directly.

For short meetings I do not ask for any advance payment, so you can start with that format without paying anything upfront. For longer ones, the deposit protects the time and commitment of both of us: without it, what we have discussed remains a conversation and the date remains open to anyone. The conditions are in Booking and payment.

The deposit is normally paid by Bizum or bank transfer, while the balance can also be paid in cash; credit cards and cryptocurrencies are not accepted. You can give me the balance at the beginning or at the end of our meeting, directly or in an envelope, whichever makes you more comfortable. We choose the payment reference together. Our names may appear on the statement, as with any payment between two people. The rest is in Booking and payment.

All expenses are yours to cover, both those we incur while we are together and those linked to the logistics of the meeting. How they are handled is set out in Booking and payment.

We reschedule or cancel, and I do not make a drama out of it: plans change. All you need to do is tell me. The conditions that apply are set out in full in Booking and payment.

No tips: the fee for the meeting is more than enough. Gifts are a purely optional and personal gesture: they are not something I expect, and they do not change in any way the quality of the time and attention I will give you.

You decide, depending on how comfortable you feel. If you prefer to move the meeting, we will move it.

Drinking, yes, in moderation. Smoking is possible, although I would prefer you did not; keep some mints with you.

I arrive dressed appropriately for the situation and for what we have discussed, well groomed and freshly showered. If you have a particular style in mind, just tell me beforehand and I will do my best. There is no dress code for you: you can dress as you like, or in whatever way suits the kind of meeting we will have.

Yes. You can tell me openly what you have in mind, including fantasies or specific requests, and I will tell you just as clearly whether it is something we can experience together.

I take care of protection and safety in general, and I always bring everything necessary with me. I also undergo full screenings and check-ups regularly.

Chemistry is not something anyone can promise in advance. What I can guarantee is that, if it is missing, neither you nor I will carry on just to be polite.

Feeling embarrassed is natural, and the first moments can be the hardest part. We take all the time we need, without pressure and without obligations. That feeling usually fades after the first few minutes together.

I keep track of the time, naturally and discreetly, so that no one has to worry about looking at the clock or counting the minutes.

Yes. A Threshold encounter can be extended on the spot and turn into the Depth. If circumstances allow on the day, we decide together and settle the difference there and then.

There is no particular etiquette: you can behave with me as you would with anyone else. Feel free to ask me all the questions you want; curiosity is a good sign.

Photos, videos and recordings only happen if we have discussed them beforehand, or if we decide on them together in the moment. This applies to both of us: without your yes, no image of you exists, and I do not record anything. You will find it among My boundaries and criteria.

I present myself like any other guest: from the outside, we are two people who have decided to spend some time together, and nothing about me gives away the nature of our meeting. If we run into someone you know, introduce me however you like; I will play along.

I confirm nothing, to anyone. Discretion and privacy are two pillars of the way I work, and they continue to apply even after our last meeting. How I handle them is set out in Privacy and discretion.

If one day we happen to cross paths in the street, you will decide how much space to give that moment: if you want to say hello, we will do so naturally.

We can talk whenever you like. The tone between us will be warmer and more familiar than in our first messages, while discretion and respect for our private lives remain the same. This is also what staying in touch is for: when you feel like seeing me again, we do not start from scratch.

Yes, and I am glad to receive one. Before it is published, we decide together where and in what form, a review on a platform or a testimonial here on the site, so that it respects the level of discretion we have chosen.

What stays with you after the meeting is yours, and everyone goes through it in their own way. If something did not work, tell me: it is the only way I can know, because no one else can tell me on your behalf. If instead you simply need to make sense of what you felt, we can talk about it.

It can happen, and in a way it confirms that what passed between us was more natural than you expected. If you sense that your feelings are becoming something more, you can talk to me about it openly: it is not a conversation to avoid, nor something you have to keep to yourself. For my part, I will try to be just as honest, and if at some point we realise that continuing risks making things harder, we will find the right way to handle it together.

Yes, you can see me again, and next time there will be no first message to write. We will already know how to talk to each other and will pick up where we left off. Returning clients also get priority on dates.

Absolutely. Many happy couples look for new experiences to share: it is not a sign of crisis but of open-mindedness and closeness. Around one couple in two fantasises about experiences with a third person.

We stop. It is better to stop than to force it. After the experience, talk about it openly so you can work through any mixed emotions together.

No, I am not there to compete with anyone. There are moments to come closer and moments to step back.

Rates are slightly higher than for one-to-one meetings, because giving attention to two people makes the experience more complex to manage. Expenses remain yours to cover, both those of the meeting and those of the logistics, and Booking and payment explains how they are handled.

Yes, and it is generally considered safer and more controlled than a casual encounter. I make sure you both feel at ease, respecting the pace and dynamics of each of you. You can read more on the subject in the article on having a threesome as a couple.

Jealousy is normal, and it is better to deal with it before the meeting than during it. Talk about your insecurities and set limits that respect you both. If it is too strong, perhaps the timing is not right: the experience should strengthen the relationship, not damage it.

Choose a calm moment. Present it as a fantasy to explore together and not as something missing from your relationship, listen to the reaction without applying pressure, and if it is not the right time yet, give it time. It has to be a shared decision.

Connection and chemistry can be recognised from the very first moments. Take the time to talk about it, choose together and write to me about what you are fantasising about. A phone call, a video call or a coffee are all options you have to feel more certain about this choice.

Whichever you prefer. Either of you can write to me, or you can both write to me together: it makes no difference to me, and there is no right or wrong way.

Of course: see whether there is a connection and decide whether to go ahead; it can perfectly well end with a goodbye. It works the same way as the coffee: fifteen or twenty minutes in a quiet place, a meeting in its own right with its own fee, agreed beforehand and kept separate from anything that may follow.

Discuss them between yourselves first, then tell me clearly: what is fine, what is off limits, and a safe word to stop everything. I respect them without judgement, and they can be different for each of you.

It is possible. During a threesome I might interact with just one of you while the other watches, with both, or it might vary over the course of the meeting. The dynamics develop in the moment, always respecting individual limits and sexual preferences.

No problem. Cuckolding is a practice with its own rules: distances, glances, words or silences. It is a dynamic I know, and I have written about it in the article on the meaning of cuckolding.

Only with everyone's explicit consent. If it matters to you, tell me in advance; if we have not discussed it, no photos or recordings are made, and the rule applies to me as much as to you. You will find it among My boundaries and criteria.

Relax and enjoy the moment, and keep talking to each other during it too. If something is not right, we stop. Let me guide you as well, and do not try to play a role: authenticity is what makes it all better.

Talk about it openly and without judgement, understanding each other's reasons. If you cannot agree, it is better not to force it. Perhaps the experience has revealed different desires: use it as a starting point to get to know each other better as a couple.

Talk about it the next day, with a clear head: what you liked and what you did not, how you felt, what you would like to be different. Communication after the experience is essential for the wellbeing of the relationship.

Yes. The whole meeting flows more naturally when trust has been built. We get to know each other and the experiences improve over time: it is like having a trusted third person.

Yes. Everything I learn about you remains strictly confidential. Privacy and confidentiality are fundamental pillars of my work, and I talk about them on the page Privacy and discretion.

Yes. We can define together the kind of meeting you have in mind, and if you prefer, I can follow the script we have agreed on without revealing the nature of our arrangement.

A gigolo is a man who offers his company for payment, dedicating time and attention to a woman or a couple within an agreed meeting. While historically the term described a man 'kept' by a wealthy woman, today the figure has evolved into that of a professional able to accompany clients on trips, to events and to dinners, and even to offer a listening ear, emotional support and, depending on what is agreed and on personal sensitivity, intimacy.

Today there is no clear, universally accepted distinction, and the definitions in circulation do not all agree: the three words are more commercial labels than separate categories. There are some differences in usage, at least in Europe. Escort is the term in current use, the broadest one, and also the one that names the arrangement most directly. Gigolo is the older word, the one cinema fixed in everyone's mind, and it carries that image with it. Companion is the cautious word, chosen when someone is not sure they want to use either of the other two. The reasons they do not mean exactly the same thing are explained in What is a gigolo, and how is he different from an escort.

It depends on where you live. In the vast majority of countries, turning to an adult professional is entirely legal, but there are some exceptions, and in some cases the law continues to apply even when you are abroad. If in doubt, the simplest thing is to check the law in your country of residence before booking.

Contrary to the clichés that cinema has helped to cement, the women who turn to a male escort today are extremely varied, from every background, and modern. What they have in common is an awareness of what they want and the choice to devote time to themselves, without having to explain or justify it to anyone. It is an act of self-determination, a decision to invest in their own wellbeing on their own terms.

What they are looking for often goes beyond the physical: attention, conversation, safety while exploring and the peace of mind of knowing that everything shared rests on a solid foundation of discretion. There is also an important psychological and emotional component: the pleasure of company, of being listened to and of closeness, without having to deal with the compromises, complexities or dramas of a traditional date.

Every professional has their own limits and a firm 'no' to certain things. You will find all of mine in My boundaries and criteria.

The good signs are visible before even making contact: an online presence that is consistent over time, a well-kept website, traceable contact details. After that, what counts is clear communication, willingness to do a video call before any commitment, and transparency about how booking and payment work. The warning signs are improvised or obviously temporary communication channels, a demand for the full amount in advance, photos that are too perfect, pressure to close quickly and evasive answers.

Yes, but with care: it must be a gift that is welcome, not imposed. Before booking, make sure the person is open to the idea.

The fact that the directories only show recent profiles comes down to the deep regulatory and technological changes of recent years, starting with Spain’s 2022 sexual freedom law, which forced many long-standing platforms to close or to change course. You will find every detail, documented and verifiable, in the Public record section of the Official channels page.

The main review services, such as Trustpilot or Google Business, do not cover this sector, and most directories have had to remove user ratings to curb fake reviews. The few platforms that still allow them require registration with verification of personal details, a process most clients prefer to avoid to protect their privacy and discretion. That is why the testimonials you read here arrive only privately, by email, message or letter.

I rewrite testimonials and reviews to protect the identity of the people who entrust them to me and to make sure the details of an encounter cannot be pieced together. They reach me privately, by email, message, letter or conversation, and I adapt them to the voice of the site without changing their meaning. I remove dates, recognisable expressions and details that could identify a client, or that someone could use to pass themselves off as a person who was there, or even as me, and obtain information under false pretences. That is why, under every testimonial you read, you will find only initials and a place.