For Two
A shared fantasy, with her at the centre.
Every couple has a scene they only talk about in whispers, and no two imagine the same one. Some want to take part together, some would rather watch, some want to enjoy the game of seduction without knowing in advance how it will end. Whatever yours is, I have one task: to make it real.
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How it works
Desire can be bold without the encounter having to be complicated. You write to me and trust me with your fantasy, even if only in broad strokes; through our conversation we bring it into focus, until it is clear where you want to go and what place I will have between the two of you. Then we decide what form our time together will take and where to spend it: usually I come to you, at your home or your hotel, and my place remains an exception, considered case by case.
The forms our time can take
The Threshold
A precise moment
If you are a couple looking for a third, the Threshold is designed for you as well, and the experience is built around what you have in mind.
The Depth
Time as place
Dinner for three, a whole night or a weekend away from home: the Depth, made to measure for a couple, where the evening is in no hurry to end and the connection between you grows at your own pace.
Travel
The world, if you truly want it.
A couple can set off as three too, to a destination chosen together, with her at the centre and the rest decided along the way.
Voices
A few fragments from couples who chose to share their fantasy with me.
No names, no faces. The voices are theirs, the words are mine.
What held us back a bit was the idea of meeting a stranger straight away in a hotel room. Since it was our first time we wanted something more natural, so we started with dinner. And I have to say Alex is someone you feel comfortable with even just sitting at a table. He was thoughtful enough to bring both of us into the conversation, so neither of us ended up feeling like the odd one out. That mattered to us.
We don't even really know how to describe what we experienced. It was a fantasy we'd had for such a long time, and we finally decided to do it. Alexander was so sweet with us, he guided us, listened to us and made us feel at ease the whole time. An experience we'll never forget. Thank you.
Oh Alex, you've been putting up with us for years now! My husband and I always know we can count on you. You're a sweetheart, even when I try your patience. A big kiss from both of us, see you soon.
We contacted him during a holiday in Tenerife, we wanted to try something different as a couple. We were on the same page straight away about what we were looking for. Everything went very well, and my wife especially was very satisfied. Positive experience.
My fantasy was to see my wife with another man, and I wanted it to actually happen. I wrote to Alexander and we arranged it. In the end everything went fine, he treated both of us well and we didn't have any problems.
From the Journal
Articles written for couples, from the point of view of the invited third.
Frequently asked questions
Is it normal for a couple to look for a male escort?
Absolutely. Many happy couples look for new experiences to share: it is not a sign of crisis but of open-mindedness and closeness. Around one couple in two fantasises about experiences with a third person.
Do you work with couples? How does a male escort service for couples work?
Yes, I also work with couples. I meet you together for the agreed experience, and we all discuss desires, limits and preferences in advance. Respecting the dynamics of the couple is one of my priorities.
How much does a male escort for couples cost?
Rates are slightly higher than for one-to-one meetings, because giving attention to two people makes the experience more complex to manage. Expenses remain yours to cover, both those of the meeting and those of the logistics, and Booking and payment explains how they are handled.
It's our first time with a third person. Should we choose a male escort?
Yes, and it is generally considered safer and more controlled than a casual encounter. I make sure you both feel at ease, respecting the pace and dynamics of each of you. You can read more on the subject in the article on having a threesome as a couple.
What if he prefers to watch?
No problem. Cuckolding is a practice with its own rules: distances, glances, words or silences. It is a dynamic I know, and I have written about it in the article on the meaning of cuckolding.
Is our privacy safe?
Yes. Everything I learn about you remains strictly confidential. Privacy and confidentiality are fundamental pillars of my work, and I talk about them on the page Privacy and discretion.
How should we behave during the meeting?
Relax and enjoy the moment, and keep talking to each other during it too. If something is not right, we stop. Let me guide you as well, and do not try to play a role: authenticity is what makes it all better.
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How do we know if you're the right male escort for us?
Connection and chemistry can be recognised from the very first moments. Take the time to talk about it, choose together and write to me about what you are fantasising about. A phone call, a video call or a coffee are all options you have to feel more certain about this choice.
How do I suggest the idea to my partner?
Choose a calm moment. Present it as a fantasy to explore together and not as something missing from your relationship, listen to the reaction without applying pressure, and if it is not the right time yet, give it time. It has to be a shared decision.
How do we handle jealousy?
Jealousy is normal, and it is better to deal with it before the meeting than during it. Talk about your insecurities and set limits that respect you both. If it is too strong, perhaps the timing is not right: the experience should strengthen the relationship, not damage it.
Which of us should write to you?
Whichever you prefer. Either of you can write to me, or you can both write to me together: it makes no difference to me, and there is no right or wrong way.
Can we have a first meeting to get to know each other?
Of course: see whether there is a connection and decide whether to go ahead; it can perfectly well end with a goodbye. It works the same way as the coffee: fifteen or twenty minutes in a quiet place, a meeting in its own right with its own fee, agreed beforehand and kept separate from anything that may follow.
How do we set the limits of the experience?
Discuss them between yourselves first, then tell me clearly: what is fine, what is off limits, and a safe word to stop everything. I respect them without judgement, and they can be different for each of you.
Will you interact with both partners?
It is possible. During a threesome I might interact with just one of you while the other watches, with both, or it might vary over the course of the meeting. The dynamics develop in the moment, always respecting individual limits and sexual preferences.
Does it become a comparison between him and you?
No, I am not there to compete with anyone. There are moments to come closer and moments to step back.
What if one of us changes their mind halfway through?
We stop. It is better to stop than to force it. After the experience, talk about it openly so you can work through any mixed emotions together.
Can we film or photograph the meeting?
Only with everyone's explicit consent. If it matters to you, tell me in advance; if we have not discussed it, no photos or recordings are made, and the rule applies to me as much as to you. You will find it among My boundaries and criteria.
I want to surprise my partner: is that possible, and can you avoid saying you're a male escort?
Yes. We can define together the kind of meeting you have in mind, and if you prefer, I can follow the script we have agreed on without revealing the nature of our arrangement.
Will the experience change our relationship?
It can strengthen it, if you approach it with complete transparency, communication and respect. However, if there are existing problems, it is not the solution: you need to be solid as a couple from the start.
How do we process the experience afterwards?
Talk about it the next day, with a clear head: what you liked and what you did not, how you felt, what you would like to be different. Communication after the experience is essential for the wellbeing of the relationship.
What if only one of us wants to do it again?
Talk about it openly and without judgement, understanding each other's reasons. If you cannot agree, it is better not to force it. Perhaps the experience has revealed different desires: use it as a starting point to get to know each other better as a couple.
Can we see you regularly as a couple?
Yes. The whole meeting flows more naturally when trust has been built. We get to know each other and the experiences improve over time: it is like having a trusted third person.
Just between the three of us
For a couple, discretion concerns two lives instead of one. Below you will find how I handle it, what you can count on and the rest of how I work.